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Scarface
Warrensburg, MO
Joined: Jun 19, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-06-19 19:16:46 |
| I'd like to hear some ideas. Go! |
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lekkermeisje
Salem, OR
Joined: May 21, 08 Status Level: 2 |
2008-06-29 23:06:46 |
| Bad date leaves you feeling creepy. If a guy seems not to care what you say, just looks at your body and compliments it, bad. Don't drool. I like to be complimented, but maybe a bit more, "Wow, you look nice." Use neutral adjectives. I want to see you are intrested in more than sex. Good date, conversation, connection on common intrests, wit, Try to mirror the one you like, she will not knowtice, but she will. If she likes you she will. She may touch you lightly during conversation and laugh at lame jokes. If she shows grooming behaivor, pressing lips, hair playing, shifting top, and doesn't look uncomfortable, she likes you. If you watch body language, you will know. Bad date body is closed. Slouching, sighing, no eye contact, crossed arms and legs is bad. If she looks like she is in a dentist's office, she is not finding you interesting. If you want to save the date try to get her to open up. If she doesn't, she probablly isn't your type. I read a lot about human behaivor, sorry for the essay. |
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Artemis kid
Freetown, IN
Joined: Aug 19, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-08-19 23:25:44 |
| I once dated a guy who told me straight out, "I'm really after your mom." Bad enough? | |
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Mizz Ladie n Pink
Richmond, VA
Joined: Nov 12, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-11-12 20:02:17 |
| GOOD DATES TAKE YOU OUT TO A NICE DINNER TAKE YOU HOME GIVE YOU A LITTLE SOMETHING SOMETHING. BAD DATES TAKE TO A ACTION MOVIE DON;T HAVE ANY MANNERS AND DROP YOU OFF AT HOME LIKE YOU AINT DID NOTHING ALL DAY. DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLO |
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Rectal Champion
Los Angeles, CA
Joined: Dec 27, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-12-27 23:06:34 |
| Haha,Artemis kid! This is hilarious! Hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa :D I'd say WELL DONE, honey. |
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Wosret
Berwick, ME
Joined: Dec 31, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-12-31 06:22:36 |
| Little too subjective to say anything definitively about. A bad date is one where I utter more than ten idiotic sentences, and induce more than three raised eyebrows for reasons that aren't readily apparent to me. A good date is one where the plans go smoothly, and I am able to feign being interesting successfully, and avoiding doing or saying anything stupid. Those would be my standards of judgment. |
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Jewels
Paola, KS
Joined: Feb 12, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-02-12 21:22:24 |
| Wosret, sometimes saying or doing something stupid is part of a good date. As long as you can laugh at yourself and the other person laughs with you, you're good. And feigning interest is not really a good thing. If you're not taking any real interest in what's going on, then don't pretend. It's a waste of both your time and the other person's time. Good Date vs Bad Date Good - Whatever plans go reasonably well, even if there's a few hitches, there's a lot of laughing and smiling going on on both sides of the table, so to speak (unless you're at the movies and you have to whisper very quietly in their ears). For me, compliments are nice, but not necessary. It's polite, but i'm not a girly girl. Bad - Being irritated with the other person within 10 minutes, having conversations about different sex partners someone's had or other people they've been involved with period. Judgmental, self-involved behavior is a pisser for me, and anyone that talks constantly about God. |
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happygolucky44
Gainesville, FL
Joined: Mar 27, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-29 12:40:08 |
| I would have to strongly agree with the following from Wosret: "A bad date is one where I utter more than ten idiotic sentences, and induce more than three raised eyebrows for reasons that aren't readily apparent to me." (This had me laughing, its also happened to me more then once.) concurrently, good conversation is key. It is an essential part to understanding another; it provides the strongest of flirtation; and works in conjunction with your body language to evoke a sense of attraction. But all of this is known. I guess I am emphasizing this as a key componant of a good date! A bad date is the opposite. If the person you are seeing is closed off, or not interesting and has nothing to say then nothing can come from this encounter. This sucks, and I would rather sit and watch paint dry while having a root cannal done. On a side note, I hate it when there is no chemistry, and both recognize this, but there is no attempt to save the evening. There are times were without saying it the date has ended and its obvious - to us both - that it is not going anywhere romanticaly. I will loosen up, change some plans and try to just become friends, but not her! There is a steady stream of scowls and one word responses and quite. I find that frustrating! The date occures for a reason! and , for some, a friendship is not worth the effort! Wow, this became a little more then a good vs bad date thread! Sorry all! |
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san andres
Middleville, MI
Joined: Apr 6, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-04-06 03:49:59 |
| A good date seems like it would just be pretty self-evident. If you feel something there then there you go. A bad date would either be two people just not hitting it off or one of the two finding out that their interest isn't mutual. | |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 2 |
2009-04-23 10:58:43 |
| happy, you need to get a photo. lol. your completely right. of course. i've had the not even working towards friends thing happen so freaking much i want to scream. also, jewels, your right about talking about Him too much but a bit is fine for me. i want to knwo where the other person stands on religion. i usually text a friend and have her say she's really hurt or something, cuz you can hear everything on my phone if the date really really sucks. i've used my mom to on some occasions. im only 18, though, so using mommy and daddy wasnt too long ago. no more for me now! but really, one way to make a bad date go to good is try and have them talk about themselves. i ask alot about them. if they wont shut up about themselves, (and sometimes they could just be nervous and are blabbering, not self centered) try to steer the conversation over to the news or current events or something. if they refuse to talk, ask to go see a movie. that way, no one CAN talk. smart, huh? never, ever, though, leave them stranded somewhere. offer to take them to a friends house if they dont want to go home if you have to leave eary into the date. | |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 3 |
2009-05-21 10:40:39 |
| not that i have a car.... | |
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arwen
Joined: Feb 24, 09
Status Level: 3 |
2009-07-06 16:10:52 |
| i liked this post. i think we should post more on it. i want to hear everyone elses opinions | |
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3 |
2009-07-08 22:40:24 |
| So, a thread I haven't posted on...hmmmmmmm...the difference between a bad date and a good date boils down to how comfortable I feel during the silences and during the conversation. If I constantly feel like I must talk or my date feels like he must talk, then we won't make it far because it will become awkward. If we have no common ground or interests to talk about, again we won't be very compatible. Yes, differences add spice and help the relationship grow but if there is no commonality, then it has no where to start from. Some chemical attraction is important, that first instantaneous, oh, I like that but looks aren't everything and will only end up fading as you get older. It is more important to be lovely on the inside (and yeah, guys can be lovely on the inside while remaining masculine). What do ya'll think? | |
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arwen
Joined: Feb 24, 09
Status Level: 3 |
2009-07-17 03:18:21 |
| i agree completely | |
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cowgirl
Joined: May 18, 10
Status Level: 1 |
2010-05-18 20:13:35 |
| the worst date ive ever been on was when my now x boyfriend took me to a mortuary. he wanted to be one of the greeter men that worked there because they make alot of money. he was wayyy to serious about the relationship and said he wanted his future wife to see what her future husband would be doing at work all day. it was sooo awkard! | |
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