Do I HAVE to be a "bad boy" to get women?
Thread Topic: Do I HAVE to be a "bad boy" to get women?
Nixabee
Tucson, AZ
Joined: Mar 23, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-23 18:53:53 |
| Being a bad boy does nothing, I think Being a "bad boy" has gotten confused with the simple idea of not being needy or trying to hard. A guy who is confident in himself but not jerky is what attracts women. | |
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moon gate
Reading, PR
Joined: Dec 10, 08 Status Level: 2 |
2009-03-25 23:06:34 |
| gabo may i give u advice.its for free the price is just pay attention:),, firestly i really loveled what TheLeatherman and((just in the last lines))with Wacky Warrior.. my experiace is may not better than the others but i went throught it and i know how its going..all girls if u ask them they would say that ofcource we r looking for the good boy(thats right)but the real life is something else.coz i wont talk much so take advices as marked. 1:u should treat the girl how the boys treat her in her((region)) 2:sence the girl cant stand infront of the jelouse.try to make her jelouse((it is the best way to get her)) 3:try to know some potic words 4:dont ever say love words at the beggening of the relation.untill she starts to ask..did u miss me? 5:and its important point.be selfconvedense ....and many advices u ll know by ur self.. and sorry for my bad english coz its not my mother tounge :)) |
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happygolucky44
Gainesville, FL
Joined: Mar 27, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-27 12:09:20 |
| Girls, like guys, mature over time. Imature guys tend to act like the "bad boys", and imature women are attracted to that sense of humor and thrill of adventure and danger. Young men who are mature for their age well feel left-out, but they are waiting for a mature women who knows there is more to life then drugs, booz, fast cars, and motorcycles. The problem is that those same young men will want that adventurous women at some point, they just arnt sure how to get her - due to what there sense of morals, and character tell them. So, as almost everyone is saying, be uninhibited, yet stick to your beliefs. Have fun, but also feel comfortable saying no...that display of adventerous maturity will, prehaps, win over the affection of, not only a fun-loving adventurous girl, but also a mature women. My two cents, I am not an authority on this matter. Good luck everyone!! | |
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MYRASOSWEET
Conley, GA
Joined: Apr 29, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2009-04-01 04:50:15 |
| thats just garbage, i hate smokers and i dislike drinkers because i do not do either, but i dont mind for a guy to be a little "bad" no girl wants a wimp/punk type guy, females who get into bad relationships tend to keep falling for the same type of guy but i bet if a good guy came and treated them right they would be so bewildered by how much beter it is, so no if you find a woman to meet your preference i bet she will like you | |
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san andres
Middleville, MI
Joined: Apr 6, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-04-06 04:05:17 |
| This seems like a question that doesn't really have much of answer, since everyone can name an example of a jerk who gets a lot of women as well as a nice guy. Maybe the best thing to do is to just try and be yourself and see what happens. | |
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TalentWasted
Tacoma, WA
Joined: May 4, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-05-06 19:41:04 |
| Everyones sitiuation and history is diferent. Some women choose to be with guys that remind them of their father. Some get trapped into bad relationships Some are abused their whole life so thats all they know some just don't know what they want in a relationship so on a so forth and that goes with guys too Everyone is diferent, it just takes time to find that right person |
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emt basic
Prescott, AZ
Joined: Sep 29, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2009-05-08 04:15:02 |
| Let me just say 1 thing to you n I hope this gets in n stays in your head.Women HATE wussies!Those guys who go out of their way to please a woman n show NO backbone or self control.IE,The guys who are TOO NICE.You will NEVER get with ANY woman if you are the NICE guy.That DOESN'T mean though that you should treat them badly.Don't be a doormat though.You will NEVER be more than friends with a woman if you do.Be nice of course but have your own life too. | |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 2 |
2009-05-08 13:23:16 |
| seriously, can we get this guy blocked? you really have no idea what your talking about emt. for realz. there is no such thing as too nice, and guys who are are getting alot more action than you i bet. | |
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TalentWasted
Tacoma, WA
Joined: May 4, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-05-10 02:20:47 |
| LOL I'm a Nice guy that Finishes last and I just got out of a 4 year relationship. well maybe not out, its intresting. But Im not saying Im a doormat. Look from what I can tell the key to a good relationships are these Honesty, trust, Loyalty, respect, you have to be willing to give for the other person, not just take, comunication. be there for each other but still have your space. and be secure but like I said before, everyone wants something different, so it's not exact. Life is what you make as it is with relationships. |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 2 |
2009-05-13 13:19:40 |
| ow are you not out if its over, if you dont mind my asking? you can message me if you dont wanna talk about it here... | |
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TalentWasted
Tacoma, WA
Joined: May 4, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-05-14 02:49:08 |
| I sent you a message arwen | |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 2 |
2009-05-19 13:00:34 |
| anyways, anyone else have anything to say on this subject before James closes it down? (the admin) |
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BONNYZfasia
Joined: Dec 5, 09
Status Level: 1 |
2009-12-05 22:11:01 |
| no..you do not have to be a bad boy but i would prefer one! | |
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JustAnotherGirl
Joined: Dec 5, 09
Status Level: 1 |
2009-12-05 23:14:54 |
| Some of these people, who are replying, I don't know... It seems to me they should do the world a favor and NEVER open their mouths, or their reply boxes, ever again. I agree with san andres. To lump all womyn or all men into one box is the most asinine thing I have ever heard in my life. We are all people. If every girl/woman was attracted to the same thing; there'd be, like, one dude with a LOT of chicks... And the same thing goes for the flip side... There'd be one girl, with a lot of guys. Besides simple personality and preference and whatnot, you also have to take into consideration one's psychological state as well. As I saw a few members say on here already, abuse (this includes emotional and mental, slander, and sometimes it really can include indifference) is a cycle. Some people have low self esteem and would rather date somebody whose behavior towards them reflects their own perception of their own self worth. There's so much to consider when it comes to attraction, and chemistry. And let's face it... it's hard now a days to find what you want, and match it up with someone else who not only wants the same thing, but is the type of person you would want it from, and vice versa. But maybe you should take a look at the type of womyn you find yourself attracted to... Oh and BTW, I am a social drinker, and I smoke as well. Maybe I started the smoking out of rebellion, as most of us do, but I continue to smoke out of habit and addiction. But it doesn't make me a bad person. Silly. |
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the vladster
Joined: Jun 1, 11
Status Level: 2 |
2011-06-13 21:50:40 |
okay no you do not have to be a bad boy to get girls to like you u should try the gentleman side i did and i finally got a girlfriend so u should give it a try okay bro |
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