Do I HAVE to be a "bad boy" to get women?
Thread Topic: Do I HAVE to be a "bad boy" to get women?
Gabo
Reading, PR
Joined: Apr 13, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-04-13 13:05:56 |
| Well, I wonder, because there's this, like terrible guys who drink and smoke and make a mess of everything, and this are the guys women talk about...as a their current relationship. Sometimes I get the impression women don't want "good men", just "bad men" who they can turn into good men, like a building project. Is this just a perception? | |
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Rosie
Roseburg, OR
Joined: Apr 14, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-04-14 11:31:57 |
| No you don't have to be a bad boy to get a woman. Some women get trapped in bad relationships and don't know how to feel when someone treats them right. So they tend to stick in that bad cycle. Be your self and I am sure you will find the right girl for you. | |
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strat68ntx
Hereford, TX
Joined: Apr 29, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-04-29 13:57:56 |
| Well...the thing is, I am a bad boy. I drink and smoke, but I somehow manage to NOT make a mess of everything. The reason behind the problem you are having has to do with the men women are attracted to and the ones they aren't. To many women, there are four types of guys. 1."Not in a million years!" 2."Have sex with" guys 3."Have relationship with" guys 4."Have sex and relationship with" guys. You want to be one of those number 4's. You can have a bit of the "bad boy" attitude and still be a really nice guy. If you allow the "project" thing to happen to you...she will be gone as soon as you buy into it. They want "good men", but what you think that means and what they think it means are totally different. I can help you if you want...message me. |
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Wacky Warrior
Monett, MO
Joined: May 10, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-05-10 08:44:07 |
| Gabo, the first thing you need to do is find a test somewhere that will tell you what type of personality you are and what typr of women you attract. You must be very honest when you take these tests or they will do you no good. Secondly, and most importantly, be yourself at all times! DO NOT try acting like you think a certain woman will want you to act. There are thousands of women out there for every personality type, all you have to do is be yourself and spend time around the type of female that is interested in YOUR TYPE. It does absolutely NO GOOD for you to hang out in bars if you are looking for a nice stay at home woman, or a nice Christian Woman to raise your kids. If you work around a lot of women, start being a constant uplifting force that they will notice. Treat EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET as if God put them on this planet for your admiration (don't get freaky), very minorly flirt by saying nice things sub-liminal comments but NO SEXUAL HARRASSMENT, the ones that are attracted to your personality type, once you settle into it alone, will make comments back to you other than Hi or How are you today. Be attuned to those being polite and those trying to strike up conversations. Don't rush it, apparently if you are having to ask this question, you are not doing something correctly, which is seeming desparate, women don't need desparate guys unless they have this need to MOTHER. The more you act as if you don't care whether a woman likes you or not, the more you will seem a challenge to them, the more you seem mysterious the more they want to know what makes you tick. Bottom Line: Be nice to every woman, even if she is NOT your type, her best friend might be and believe me, they talk! Good Luck from the OLD MAN! |
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BabyGurl
Pacolet, SC
Joined: May 19, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2008-05-19 02:51:13 |
| Hey you dont have to be a bad guy to get a woman... | |
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