Is it love?
Thread Topic: Is it love?
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Ms. M
Joined: Jun 5, 10
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2010-06-05 02:31:13 |
| I have been seeing the same man for almost a year now. He intoduced me to only one of his friends. When he did so, he introduced me as his fiance and asked his friend from out of town if he was going to be around for our wedding next year. But we don't really date eachother. We visit eachother only for "adult activities" but other than that we don't really do much together. It started out as a strong friendship and then the sex came into play. Now we attend college classes together. We talk about life and he makes suggestions as to what our future is going to be like. He will say things like maybe we need to start having kids. The thing that really has me puzzled is does he really love me? He has only told me that he loves me a few times, but of course he was drinking at the time. I just don't know what to do. I'm 33 and ready to settle down. I just don't know if he is feeling the same way. He is 38 and divorced with 3 kids. He spends a lot of time with his children which i have never met. He is the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with. Just not sure if I'm wasting my time and setting myself up to be hurt. Please Help! | |
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adrika
Joined: Oct 6, 10
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2010-10-06 03:04:34 |
| Every person have different opinion. I ready it complete your story. I conclude that this is not love. You must be clear about what is love. Love: when you are together you feel happy but when you are not with him then you feel sadness. This is love. In this world people say sex is love. No sex is not love. It is greed. best creatine |
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TonyP
Joined: Oct 19, 10
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2010-10-19 16:29:38 |
| Well it is hard to say, just from a quick little blurb, what your relationship is really like, but I would suggest trying to be more involved in his life. Ask him when he plans on introducing his children to you. Tell him you love him and see how he reacts. If he is hesitant in either situation then it is likely that it is not love. Sincerely, Anthony p.s. Make sure he is sober when you ask him. |
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