What to do?
Thread Topic: What to do?
Nastaja
New Castle, CO
Joined: Feb 19, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-02-19 08:05:39 |
| What do you do when you catch your guy in bed with another lady? Do you walk away and forget about the years you shared and the kids you have? | |
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TPA Agent Obisidionn DOW
Saint Petersburg, FL
Joined: Feb 26, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-02-26 15:29:39 |
| Talk to him, find out why he would stoop that low. If he was doing just to try and "mix things up" then ask him how you can meet him halfway, but if you really love him, which I'm assuming you are since you have kids) try to make it work. That's my opinion. |
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TPA Agent Obisidionn DOW
Saint Petersburg, FL
Joined: Feb 26, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-02-26 15:30:25 |
| Update: I just wanted to add that relationships, especially marriage, are two-way roads. It takes the effort of both people to make it last. | |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-02-27 13:51:26 |
| ok, well what if he dumps you cuz he wanted to change you, and he has, so now hes not interested? | |
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TPA Agent Obisidionn DOW
Saint Petersburg, FL
Joined: Feb 26, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-02-27 22:31:29 |
| Then just move on, I guess. I don't know what to say to that. My philosophy has always been "If I'm not good enough for you as-is, then you're not good enough for me." I can understand asking someone to stop doing something, but to completely change how they act is uncalled for. (Hope that helps) |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-13 11:48:13 |
| thanks. seriously, im still so hung up over this guy, even though i found out from his ex's this is what he does. he makes you fall for him so hard, and then he just pulls the plug, and then wants to be best friends still! it hurts so bad. really it does. but its one of those things where you just cant walk away. wow. im like pouring out my heart to a stranger... | |
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moon gate
Reading, PR
Joined: Dec 10, 08 Status Level: 2 |
2009-03-16 03:30:32 |
| Nastaja....good Q may she did the same.there must be somethin wrong betwe.the couples. |
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Nastaja
New Castle, CO
Joined: Feb 19, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-16 03:53:52 |
| Thx all, will review all your opinions and seee where it will lead. Thanks you'll. | |
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atoz69
Detroit, MI
Joined: Mar 18, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-18 21:22:26 |
| as long as u have kids, try to work things aout and give him another and last chance, otherwise u have all the right to leave him | |
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Nastaja
New Castle, CO
Joined: Feb 19, 09 Status Level: 1 |
2009-03-30 03:05:01 |
| Dumped the dude, moved on and seem to be happier than before. We do see each other once in a while, and ato69, thanks... But the kids are now better off knowing mom is happy and dad well he is just Dad. | |
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emt basic
Prescott, AZ
Joined: Sep 29, 08 Status Level: 1 |
2009-05-08 03:49:48 |
| Join him n the chick he's with.You OBVIOUSLY weren't doing something n he went looking somewhere else for it!lol!You dump him it hurts you,the kids n him n his mistress!lol! | |
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09 Status Level: 2 |
2009-05-08 13:29:08 |
| WTF???? for real | |
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arwen
Joined: Feb 24, 09
Status Level: 3 |
2009-07-06 16:18:26 |
| i remeber being so mad about this... lol oh how these past two months have changed me!!!!! |
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TalentWasted
Joined: May 4, 09
Status Level: 2 |
2009-07-06 19:08:25 |
| yea it has been a couple of intresting months, but things are starting to look better :) | |
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3 |
2009-07-08 22:23:55 |
| it is funny and great to see the changes in all of us! I hope every one is still doing well... | |
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